Question I got asked recently - So how does a guy invite a lady back to his place after a night out without coming across as crass or sleazy?
So let's say you're on the third or fourth date (or more depending on the girl), you've had a really good dinner and now it's time to move on to the next stage. How should a guy initiate proceedings and set the right expectations for what's to come?
I guess if a guy were to invite a girl back to his place, it should be understood that he wants to have sex that night. And if she didn't feel like it was right, she could always say no. And generally, guys would be gentlemenly enough to accept that and perhaps even want her more the next time. So there isn't really a right or wrong way to ask the question.
Lesson learnt: always keep things in public spaces, even if it means you spend an hour making out on your sidewalk in full view of your doorman.